Taryn
recently read a book called the Continuum Concept, and related some
of the ideas from it to me. This is a book written by a woman who
visited various Indigenous tribes in South America, and found that
they had the happiest most well adjusted babies and children she had
ever seen, far different than the Children Civilization is breeding.
Some of the ideas that she talked about, and the fact that my
wonderful daughter just had a beautiful little baby boy, got me
thinking about the subject, and how "Civilization" has lost
touch with Nature and the Natural way of raising our babies and
children.
One
of the most insane and counter productive "civilized"
parenting ideas, (most likely devised by some "Father" that
realized that having a child meant time and attention taken away from
them) is that a baby needs to be left alone sometimes, and letting it
cry itself to sleep will somehow train it to live in the "real"
world. The reality is all this does is create children and
adults that feel disconnected, that feel alone....that do not feel
loved, and that lack a firm foundation. (Believe me, this is the
style I was raised under.)
Those
Uncivilized Heathens, (the ones with the babies that never cry, don't
have emotional issues and grow into healthy moral naturally good
humans) know that babies need to be Held, be touched....all the time,
every moment until THEY decide they don't need it. Contrary to
"Civilized" thought, this will not create needy whiny
little pain in the butts....(those are created by following the
"Civilized" approach).
Babies
need to know where you are all the time,(and to a baby that is right
up against your body). Leaving a baby alone terrorizes it, and the
fact that it may eventually stop crying, does not mean that the
terror is gone, it simply means that the child has given up on you as
being there for them....and this is built into the foundation of who
they will be as a young child , a teen and as an adult. They can not
depend on you. So we end up with a "Civilization"
where it's, "every man for himself"...where community and
family are just words...and people feel alone and isolated. We end up
with a "Civilization" of Disconnected, Perpetually
Needy (and therefore Greedy and Fearful) Individuals.
Another
Insane and truly Barbaric Civilized Belief has to do with Feeding the
baby.
Scheduling
feedings is about as wise an idea as attempting to tell a leaf when
it's time to fall from the tree. There is one expert source for when
a Mother is to Feed her baby, and that is the Baby. And there is one
expert source, the ONLY expert source of when to stop feeding the
baby....and that is also the baby. Any other source really has
no freakin clue and their motives for attempting to control something
as uncontrollable as the TIDES, the Seasons and the orbit of planets,
are questionable .
Of course those well adjusted Heathen kids also didn't eat Civilized CRAP or get filled with Toxins from every angle possible either...and diet and lifestyle are the next most important thing to raising a decent human to actually holding them, and fulfilling all their needs.
There
is a Natural Way to do things, most "Civilized" humans have
lost their connection with what is Natural and Healthy.... they
listen to "experts" whose heads are firmly planted in their
dumb asses...... and everybody and everything suffers. There is
really just one answer to raising healthy kids...and being healthy
ourselves....and that boils down to......opting out of Civilization
and becoming a "Heathen Barbarian." Join the Club before we
"Civilize" ourselves into oblivion.
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